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Well, ladies, no point being shy or nervous about it. If you want to talk to him, you have to make a move to the effect. Smiling at him, and hoping he’s going to come up to you, works only sometimes. For the other times, muster up the courage and walk up to him. Start with saying hi! And in case you’re stuck for ideas about what to say to him next, here’s
for you.
This one is easy. Just look for observations or comments that you can make at the time to get the conversation started. And once you get talking, you can proceed into things, keep the conversation flowing. Your ice breaker can be something as simple as a compliment like, "Hey, I love your sweater." or you can also start with an observation like, "What did you think of that quiz yesterday? I thought it was really
This is very important. Make sure what you say - or ask - warrants a detailed response. Instead of just asking “Hey, what’s up?” go for something a bit more in-depth. “What do you think about this song?” is one that works in most social situations since it’s very likely that there’s some form of music around. And even if all you can think of is the weather, “Wow, it’s super-hot today - do you think it’s likely to rain anytime soon?” can help you start off a conversation. These are questions that solicit his opinion - which means he has to participate. Way better than “Hey, what’s up?” and “Not much”, right?
There’s nothing more engaging about talking to a new person than the possibility of being able to have fun. Smile, indicate to him that you’re in a good mood. Smiles are contagious, they make the other person respond in the same way. You don’t have to giggle or laugh loudly (unless what he says makes you naturally respond that way, of course!), but smiling is always, ALWAYS a good idea. It encourages the other person to open up. (Think about it: would you be interested in talking to someone who looks grim, or someone who looks cheerful?)
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